Squid Game is too gory for me

But I need to talk about it 🦑

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Squid Game is everywhere in the news this week. And I can’t believe I watched the whole thing. Normally, I avoid shows with blood-spattering violence. My good screen world is more of a starry-eyed, pop music, choreography kind of place.

Horror, as a genre, is not my thing. I am trying to relax at night. Killer machines dressed up as dolls have less than zero appeal. Today, it’s a giant robot with laser eyes; in my childhood, it was a knife-wielding franchise with freckles (you know I mean Chucky, but I refuse to put a picture of him in my newsletter -- this is a nightmare-free zone).

However, anytime there’s a big pop cultural phenomenon, its sheer popularity is a siren song. I needed to see for myself — what is the deal?

Squid Game is on track to become Netflix’s biggest show of all time and it’s #1 in 90 countries. 

The plot of this South Korean show is that massively indebted people are selected for a macabre series of children’s games, the kind of games people know from the playground. If you win, you advance. If you lose, you die. The prize is an enormous cash pot. 

Shell-shocked after the first episode (make the song stop!), I found myself on the phone with my mom.

“What about this Oh-jing-uh Game show?” I asked, saying its name in Korean. “Have you heard about it?”

“Oh yes!” My mom was brightly enthusiastic. She started recounting headlines on the show’s Netflix success and then dove into reminiscing about these childhood games.

“BUT HAVE YOU SEEN THE SHOW?” I interrupted.


“Okay, don’t watch!” We laughed. I felt protective and hated the idea of my mom and dad, with their massive TV, watching the single most violent series I’ve ever watched. (It’s ok, my mom’s got her Korean variety shows, plus checking into every news website on earth. She’s fine.)

So now that my conduit to Korean-ness wasn’t a path to discussing the show, I asked on Instagram: Anyone watching Squid Game?

One friend instantly replied, “Yes and I love it!”

“It’s so violent!” I chatted back.

“Capitalism is violent,” she responded.

Damn, girl. A pithy three words cut to the heart of the show’s appeal. This is exactly why everyone is talking.

Now listen, the internet is already doing their capitalism-as-per-Squid Game analyses. I found myself reading up on South Korea’s household debt crisis (don’t be smug, Canada — on average, Canadians have $1.72 of debt for every dollar of disposable income and our real estate markets are bananas).

But what I’m thinking about after watching Squid Game is less economic, and more personal. At the same time, it’s global, too — representative of a slow but steady, seismic cultural shift.

Language is culture

At least a part of the obsession with Squid Game is our awareness that Hollywood is being nudged. Not just once or twice, by the outlier success of a movie like Parasite, but on a whole other level.

What my friend calls this show: “The Squid one”

There’s a history to the dominance of the English language for us here in North America. Thinking about colonizing, economic trade routes around the world, I’m hearing my friend’s words echo: “Capitalism is violent.” 

Korea has plenty of social, economic and historical baggage of its own.

But if the world can be transfixed by a dystopian horror series steeped in Korean culture, mannerisms, social histories and the Korean language, what I know is that we are entering a new world, one in which English no longer reigns.

For example, this week, 26 Korean words were added to the Oxford English Dictionary.1

The fact that every news story on this item features a photo of BTS shows exactly how we got here. Songs, stories, music, movies and food all need language. Language is culture. Culture is humankind.

It’s never just a TV show. Or just a boy band. 

A whole new ball game

During the pandemic, we all watched a ton of Netflix and plenty of it wasn’t in English. I watched all the hits like Money Heist (Spanish), Call My Agent! (French) and Lupin (French), all excellent shows. And because they are in European languages, with their imperialist legacies, they have a built-in, potential global audience of native French and Spanish speakers.

What were the chances, however, that the biggest pandemic hit show would be in Korean? It’s a country with a unique language and history of being called “the hermit kingdom” because politically and strategically, they kept to themselves. 

Of course, I’m talking in terms of centuries and millennia — clearly, being a hermit kingdom hasn’t been the case for many decades. Culturally-speaking, soft power has been the name of the game and Korea has sunk a lot of money into this investment.2 3

What does this mean for us? Besides a steady stream of entertainment? It means the world is de-centering whiteness. It’s something I felt, on a smaller level, every time I watched shows like Never Have I Ever or movies like Black Panther or Moonlight

De-centering the English language is a whole new ball game. And we’re on this path for many reasons — political, technological and more. De-centering English isn’t the same thing as “diversity in Hollywood,” because remember how Minari, an American film made by Americans, was characterized as a foreign film because its main language was Korean?4

Who has the power and what languages do they speak? Are we transcending that one-inch-tall barrier of subtitles yet?5

While it’s not like everything we watch going forward will be in Hangul, it’s so interesting to watch this shift of power. And I have to say, it’s satisfying to the little kid in me.

Online, people are trying to learn, teach and understand the subtleties and nuances of Korean values on power, prejudices, customs and culture.

Through my Western-but-also-Korean-diaspora lens, it feels like a mirror. What it’s reflecting back to me isn’t my Korean-ness, which I know is how I’m categorized through a white, Western lens. What it makes me reflect on is my North American mindset. 

Do the Squid Game characters represent Korea’s fraught social problems with debt, consumerism, racism, labour abuses and authority? Yes. And then I reflect on all of these crises here at home and question my own Western, ethnocentric lens.

At first, as I watched Squid Game, hiding my eyes and wincing, I was bummed that the most popular show on Earth features so much over-the-top violence. 

But now I’m actually feeling comforted (yes, comforted by the giant-robot-killing show) that Squid Game has struck a nerve. It shows us how agitated we are that our capitalist systems are so messed up.

If you, like me, are super-interested in K-drama and K-pop translators, the people who translate not only the lyrics or language but the culture itself, will you let me know who to follow?

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Take care,


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Further Reading

Squid Game: Netflix to edit out key phone number from gory series, BBC. Please — no one call this phone number to try to play

A TikToker Says Netflix's 'Squid Game' Is Not The Same Show With English Subtitles, Narcity. This was fun to watch (language warning). Thanks to all my Korean school teachers throughout the years but now I learn from TikTok lol

When BTS fans say they’ve fallen down a rabbit hole (it me) what it really means is starting with a TV show or music video, then using it to learn more and more about Korean culture. I see this all the time on social media, from fans of all cultures and languages, like in the quote tweets and replies to this Tweet.

And thank you to ATEOD reader Rosel, who sent me these great Twitter threads on Squid Game, below 👇


Daebak! The OED gets a K-update, Oxford English Dictionary


After ‘Parasite,’ Are Subtitles Still a One-Inch Barrier for Americans? New York Times

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